Falling Off Of The Face Of The Earth

You would think we did fall off the face of the earth, having not updated out blog in FOREVER (Okay, really, like four months). Well, a lot has happened, and yet nothing has happened at the same time. But now that equilibrium is being achieved, let's start from the beginning.

With Jen's health, she ended up taking a leave from work and school in June. The downside is that they had to push her graduation back to 2015, but at least she gets a break until next January, when she starts back up again. Her leave was pretty lengthy from work: about 10 weeks total. She is just now getting back to Stanford, but at a reduced shift. She also was offered a job at Easter Seals in Oakland providing ABA therapy for several clients in the bay area. It's slow starting that job, and she is considering leaving Stanford for this new position, so we will see how things go.

So, what did Jen end up having? It turns out it wasn't vertigo, which is sort of good news, because treatment for vertigo is not easy to work with. Instead, she was diagnosed with vestibular migraines, a type of migraine that deals with motion and dizziness. They put her through the ringer with tests, including an MRI, hearing test, and motion testing to rule out other conditions like Meniere's disease and vertigo. Although VM is not an official diagnosis, the three doctors she has seen (her regular doctor, a neurologist and an ENT) have it as a diagnosis, and so we went about treating it as such. The medications she had been given were really tough on her, as they made her even more nauseated or caused her heart to pound and beat rapidly. At one point, she was actually seeing things. One weekend, she even kept imagining someone walk by out of the corner of her eye, but when she turned to look, no one was there! Ultimately, we decided with the doctors to just try to be really conscious of when her migraines were going to start, to make sure she stays cool, hydrated, and out of the sun, and uses her glasses more. It's a little funny to see her in a building with sunglasses on, or wearing them while on the computer, but Jen doesn't seem to mind the funny looks!http://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif

As if the health issues weren't enough, we also had a bit of a financial blow. Jeff lost his job with Starbucks suddenly not long after Jen's leave. We were able to save some money since Jen didn't go into work and started using up our frozen food cache. For those who don't know, in our house we have two refrigerators and a decent-sized chest freezer that we keep full of food. We grocery shopped for veggies, milk and bread but had plenty of meats and frozen food to eat. Since we didn't eat out as much as well, we saved a bit of money there too and were fortunate enough to keep afloat. While Jeff was looking, a friend from church had mentioned he was selling life insurance through New York Life, so Jeff decided to look into it. He was able to study and take the test and pass on one try, so he is now an agent with the company. If anyone is looking for life insurance or just curious, he made his own Facebook page as well: . Also, to help with some of the finances, Jeff continued to see about any possibilities with Gap. Even after he left his job for Starbucks, Jeff worked at Gap near us to keep his discount. After being laid off from Starbucks, he asked his supervisors for any job leads and it turns out there was an opening at the mall down the street from us! He was offered the job this last week, and his first official day as the assistant manager will be this Thursday. Here's hoping everything is going to go well!

Even though it sounds like a lot of bad happened, we were fortunate enough to weather the storm. It's been a long summer, and with us both home we were able to hang out more and discuss our plans for the future. We have a lot to look forward to still and are excited about the possibilities the future will have.

Hopefully we won't wait so long to post our next blog, but so far September is looking busy with work and Jeff's birthday, plus the holidays are right around the corner. We hope you are all well and hope you enjoyed hearing what's been going on with us!